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Can Introverts Network?

6/27/2017

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“Every week, I get invited to another “must attend” business event sure to be full of important people who could affect my business. I know I should go, but it’s a chore. All too often, I end up standing in a corner clinging to the one person I know, feeling guilty that I’m not taking advantage of the situation.”
 
So writes Rebekah Campbell, CEO of Posse.com, a social search engine for which she—a self-confessed introvert—managed, shyness aside, to raise $3 million in start-up funding. Writing in The New York Times, Campbell says, ”I recognize the importance of this type of activity, so I stick to it — primarily because a few chance encounters at events have led to relationships that have made all the difference in my business. I have to accept that networking doesn’t come naturally to me…So I’ve developed techniques to help me form relationships and improve, even enjoy, the networking process.”
 
Among her ideas:
 
  • Have short conversations with a lot of people; follow up later (Tweet it!);
  • Focus on what you’re good at (it may not be your “ability to charm”);
  • Know that a few close relationships trump a superficial network of hundreds or thousands.
 
Are you ever (even secretly) uncomfortable at networking events? What strategies do you use to overcome your reticence? To join the conversation, click "comments" below.

If you would like to read more about creating a habit around communication mastery, check out our book: Be Quiet, Be Heard: The Paradox of Persuasion
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Fred
8/31/2017 07:59:23 am

It's confession time, I see! Networking nerves? I certainly have them. All of the personality tests I've ever taken come back saying the same thing - I'm an introvert - and a pretty intense one at that. But working in the field of HR, networking is a must. Here are a few things I do:
1. The "5 Second Rule" - TED talk by Mel Robbins (If you've not seen it, be sure to do so - it will change your life!!).
2. Take the pressure off of myself. Not every encounter will unleash fireworks. I had to give myself permission to "chill out" and to just enjoy learning about others.
3. Come prepared with a few interesting questions - particularly for those dead times in the conversation flow.

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Susan
9/7/2017 08:21:03 am

Thanks for your insights Fred. We haven't seen the Ted talk -- but will check out the 5 second rule. Your recommendations are clear and actionable. Thanks!

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