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Are You Sure You Have a Growth Mindset?

3/26/2024

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“Growth mindset” has become a buzzword in many organizations, but many people have a limited understanding of what that really means. 
 
People who believe their talents can be developed through hard work, strategic thinking, and input from others have a growth mindset.  Those who believe their talents are innate gifts have a fixed mindset and are limited by their worry that the effort and hard work it takes to learn something is a sign of not being inherently smart.  A growth mindset achieves more, by putting much more effort into learning. 

Writing in the Harvard Business Review, Carol Dweck, the Lewis & Virginia Eaton Professor of Psychology at Stanford University, points out three common misconceptions about a growth mindset:

  • “I’ve always had a growth mindset”:  Everyone has a mixture of fixed and growth mindsets, and that mixture evolves with experience.  A pure growth mindset doesn’t exist, which we must acknowledge to attain the benefits we seek.
  • A growth mindset is mostly about praising and rewarding effort:  Outcomes matter.  It’s critical to reward not just effort but learning and progress, and to emphasize the processes that yield these things, such as seeking help from others, trying new strategies, and capitalizing on setbacks.
  • By espousing a growth mindset, good things will happen:  No one can argue with lofty mission statements that tout values like growth, empowerment, and innovation. But they’re meaningless if the organization doesn’t implement policies that make these values real and attainable.

Organizations that embody a growth mindset encourage appropriate risk-taking, while knowing some risks won’t work out.  They reward employees for important lessons learned, even if a project doesn’t meet its original goals.  They support collaboration across organizational boundaries rather than competition among employees or teams.  They are committed to the growth of every member, not just in words, but also in deeds such as making development and advancement broadly available. 

When is the last time you deliberately attempted to learn a new skill?  Did your employer encourage that?  To join the conversation, click "comments" above.  We would love to hear about your experiences!

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Can You Detect Counterfeit EQ?

3/19/2024

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It’s possible to fake emotional intelligence – like forgeries and knock-offs.  But there are 3 ways to spot counterfeit EQ, not just in others but also in yourself.
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Interacting from a place of emotional intelligence requires empathy, active listening, and self-awareness. But some leaders can counterfeit these emotions so skillfully that they can even fool themselves.

Writing in the Harvard Business Review, Ron Carucci, managing partner at Navalent and author of To Be Honest, says, “Our ability to express emotional intelligence is sometimes impaired by unacknowledged, unhealthy, emotional needs."  If you want to genuinely communicate emotional intelligence, pay attention to these 3 common imitations:

  • A need to be the hero can masquerade as empathy.  A leader’s desire to demonstrate care can transcend healthy boundaries in unintended ways.  If your need to rescue and to be indispensable is paramount, you will not be able to give your team what they need:  coaching, guidance, and accountability.  “Compassionate understanding for the challenges of others is emotionally intelligent.  Rescuing them from the consequences of those challenges may be more cruel than kind.”
  • A need to be right can be disguised as active listening.  Most leaders claim to want pushback and believe they listen to dissenting ideas.  But many would also admit that letting go of being right is hard, feeling like a loss of control and influence.  Leaders can feign listening while actually trying to lure others to their side without realizing they’re doing it.
  • A need for approval can be dressed up as self-awareness.  When fueled by an unquenched desire for approval, self-awareness can warp into a self-serving dead end.  If your request for feedback from team members is experienced as a neurotic plea for affirmation, the team learns that the only right answer is “You’re doing great!”

How would you rate your EQ, as well as the leaders you work with most closely?  Are there ways to become even more authentic?  To join the conversation, click "comments" above.

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One Magic Word To Make You 50% More Influential

3/12/2024

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Sometimes you just need one word to change someone’s mind.

Jonah Berger, Professor of Marketing at the University of Pennsylvania Wharton School, compiled a list of “magic words” that can change the way you communicate.  He discovered that using the word “because” while trying to convince someone to do something has a compelling result.  He found that more people “will listen to you and do what you want” when you offer a justification for your requests. 

Berger points to a classic study from Harvard University where researchers sat in a university library and waited for someone to use the copy machine. Then, they walked up and asked to cut in front of the unknowing participant.

They phrased their request in three different ways:
  • “May I use the Xerox machine?”
  • “May I use the Xerox machine because I have to make copies?”
  • “May I use the Xerox machine because I’m in a rush?”

Both requests using “because” made the people already making copies more than 50 percent more likely to comply.  Interestingly, even the second phrasing — which could be reinterpreted as “May I step in front of you to do the same exact thing you’re doing?” — was effective.  The phrasing indicated that the stranger asking for a favor was at least being considerate about it, the study suggested.

“Persuasion wasn’t driven by the reason itself,” Berger notes, “It was driven by the power of the word: because.”

Have you noticed any reactions when you justify requests with “because”? To join the conversation, click "comments" above.  We would love hear about your experience with this one, magic word!

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Great Leaders Ask Powerful Questions

3/5/2024

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What’s the secret to solving unexpected challenges, seizing new opportunities, and building strong cultures?  Ask powerful questions!

Leaders who assume they have all the answers are either clueless or lying.  So writes John Hagel III, in the Harvard Business Review).  He describes how leaders who know how to ask great questions build a reservoir of trust and team performance.

Here are some effective research-based tips:
  • Ask big questions:  Leaders who ask powerful questions have the greatest success in seizing new opportunities, addressing unexpected challenges, and building cultures that carry these benefits forward.  Ask broad, ambitious questions like, “What unmet need of our customers can we fill?” and “What is a game-changing opportunity we have?”  Refrain from nit-picky questions that put people on the spot.
  • Involve Others: Ask questions that invite collaboration, and broadcast them throughout the organization.  You can even reach out beyond the organization (customers and other stakeholders) to connect with expertise and perspectives from more diverse sources.
  • Boost Your Culture: Asking focused questions can have a calming and uniting effect during a crisis.  By asking questions as a leader, you also communicate that questioning is important and thereby inspire people to ask for help when they need it.  These behaviors lead to a culture of learning, which is critical for growth and success. 

Check out our Collaborative Problem Solving Model as a vehicle for bringing teams together to solve meaningful, creative questions central to the team’s work. 

What is the last big question you asked your team?  To join the conversation, click on  "comments" above -- we would love to hear about your experiences!  

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