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Why Recalling Names is Such a Challenge

11/28/2017

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You know that moment when you’re in mid-conversation and can’t come up with the word you want to use? Later, it shows up in your consciousness, though it’s no longer relevant. Researchers call this the “tip of the tongue state.” It’s more or less universal and—good news—it is not a sign of dementia or Alzheimer’s.
 
“You can’t talk to anybody, in any culture, in any language, in any age group, that doesn’t know what you’re talking about” when you describe this state, Lise Abrams, a psychology professor at the University of Florida who’s studied the phenomenon for 20 years, told The New York Times. There are even occurrences among sign language users (called tip-of-the-finger states).

We’re more likely to blank on words we use less frequently, and a common category of “tip of the tongue” words is proper names. “…One reason might be that proper names are arbitrary links to the people they represent, so people with the same name don’t possess the same semantic information the way that common nouns do,” Abrams said.

The bad news is there’s not a whole lot we can do in the moment to jog our memory.
But using certain words or names more often can make us less likely to forget. So if you can never seem to remember the name of your neighbor or co-worker down the hall, try saying their names out loud whenever you can (Tweet it!). Doing so might save you an awkward encounter.


What methods do you use for recalling names? To join the conversation, click "comments" above.
 
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gregg miller
11/28/2017 09:10:53 am

Feel so much better reading this. As I age, aged 61 soon, I can't recall like I used to the names of clients because i see some of these guys so infrequently. I am convinced using words more often is the only answer to the "age old problem " of not recalling when it sure would be nice to be able to!


Thanks,
Gregg

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susan
11/28/2017 09:50:38 am

We had the same experience, Greg, when we read this research. It does help to repeat -- and also sometimes to think of another person with that same name who might share a common feature. Always looking for tips! When we see someone in a public place who knows us and looks familiar, our go-to is: "We know we know you. Help us remember how." Do you have any other tips for that?

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