In last week’s Capsule we wrote about the costs of Incivility to workers. But there is yet another group for whom incivility has a negative impact: customers. Studies conducted by Georgetown business professor Christine Porath with marketing professors Deborah MacInnis and Valerie S. Folkes at USC found that people were less likely to patronize a business that has an employee they perceived as rude--whether the rudeness was directed at them or at other employees. “Witnessing a short negative interaction leads customers to generalize about other employees, the organization and even the brand,” writes Porath. Why is respect, or disrespect, such a powerful motivator? Because even brief interactions affect our view of how others see us, which in turn can shape how we define ourselves. A smile, an acknowledgment, the sense that we are being heard can uplift us, while rude, dismissive behavior can leave us feeling devalued. Sadly, Porath’s research shows incivility has soared over the past two decades: 25 percent of those surveyed in 1998 reported being treated rudely at work at least once a week. That rose to nearly 50 percent in 2005, and over 50 percent in 2011. Imagine how much lost employee and customer goodwill that adds up to! It’s time to reverse the trend, starting with identifying small moments when a slight change in demeanor can raise people up instead of bringing them down. We want to hear! Have you ever stopped patronizing a business because workers there were rude to you or to one another? Join the conversation and click "comments" on our Community of Practice Forum.
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Absolutely! Just did it last week in fact. A restaurant that I really enjoy their food. When I ordered a large to-go order and got to the destination, there was an item missing. I called to ask about it, since there was no itemized receipt included in the order. I was very rudely told that they were out of that item. When I asked if I had been charged for it, I was told "I don't know, probably not.", and then hung up on. It was a very unpleasant experience, and even though I like the food, there are other places I like too.
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susan
8/11/2015 07:41:52 am
What a grrrrr experience that was, Merry! Definitely enough to keep me away too, Sometimes I wonder whether a letter or email letting them know why they won't be seeing us anymore would be useful, given that the owner/manager probably is completely unaware of the rude behavior. Hope you have a lovelier response the next time you do takeout!
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Susan, Unfortunately he WAS the manager. It is a family business and they have a bit of a struggle at times I think with keeping up with orders. That day there was a long wait, and then no one seemed to know the prices or how to do things. Not sure what the problem really was, but it was not a good experience. The food was great, as expected, but an item was missing, and without a detailed charge slip, there was no way to know if I had paid for it or not.
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susan
8/12/2015 07:00:22 am
As you well know, Merry, family business has its own set of challenging dynamics! BTW: Just yesterday I got a reply to this Capsule on Twitter about a horrible air travel experience. The carrier this person was traveling on changed their policy for paid luggage half way through this person's trip. When he was checking in on the final leg home, he was suddenly charged for his bags and told: This change was made yesterday but you still have to pay. When the individual objected he was then told: You have 2 choices, pay or leave your bags here. So there is no shortage of the kind of dysfunctional communication we wrote about in this week's Capsule!
Susan, Unfortunately rudeness is a form of disrespect for that person, and for their business. It says loudly to a customer "We don't care about your business, and do not have any interest in getting or retaining you as a customer." With the extremely depressed economy and businesses going under daily, that is a serious mistake to make.
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susan
8/18/2015 05:07:04 am
On-line rating does make a difference, Merry. So true as an option. Like you, we also try to send positive reviews given how infrequently that is done. And we all know that reinforcement is the strongest way to shape behavior!
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Janis
9/1/2015 02:22:09 am
One thing not really mentioned in the article that always turns me off is when employees at a business where I am a customer are grumbling to each other about their workplace. As a customer, I don't want to hear the negative feelings they have about their employer, even if it's not directed toward me.
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susan
9/1/2015 11:14:47 am
Thanks for this Janis. We so agree that having to listen, as a customer, to employees complaining about work is not in any way ok! And we will try out your questions the next time we want better customer service. Look good from here!
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